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Ky Nam

Ky Nam

Hi! I'm a dreamer, doer, and empathizer. Also chief product & community at LEAN Social. I enjoy writing about productivity, learning, and social issues.

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Screw the others. I’m learning to put myself first and take care of me

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cậu bé làm trái cây trộn để học cách tập trung và chăm sóc bản thân

As I reflect on my journey of learning to prioritize my own well-being as a university student, I can’t help but wonder how many others have struggled with the same challenges. How often do we prioritize our academic or professional goals over our own mental and physical health?

How can we find a balance that allows us to excel in all aspects of our lives?

For me, the journey began with a realization that I had been neglecting my own needs for too long. Late nights spent studying and unhealthy eating habits had taken a toll on my physical and mental health, leaving me feeling depleted and overwhelmed.

boy working but be mindful that he should be learning to focus and take care of himself

But where do we start when it comes to self-care? It can seem overwhelming at first, but I found that setting small goals and incorporating healthy habits into my daily routine made a big difference. Something as simple as taking a few deep breaths or going for a walk can do wonders for our mental and physical wellbeing.

If you still don’t know where to start your self-care journey, here are some first few steps

1. Make self-care a priority

In order to excel in all aspects of our lives, we must make self-care a top priority. This means taking the time to focus on our mental and physical wellbeing, even when it feels like we don’t have the time. Start by setting small goals, like taking breaks throughout the day to stretch or engaging in activities that bring you joy. Remember that taking care of yourself is an investment in your future success.

2. Seek out a support system

Self-care is not a journey that we can take alone. It’s important to surround ourselves with a supportive community that can provide emotional and practical support when we need it. Seek out friends, family members, or a therapist who can listen to you and offer guidance when you’re feeling overwhelmed.

3. Seek motivation from peers

Build a supportive network of like-minded individuals who share your academic and personal goals. Join online study groups, such as Study with GenZ on Facebook, or use platforms like LEAN Social to find study buddies and stay motivated together.

4. Practice mindfulness

In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to get caught up in the chaos and lose sight of our own needs. Practicing mindfulness can help us stay grounded and connected to the present moment. Try incorporating mindfulness practices, like meditation or deep breathing, into your daily routine to help reduce stress and anxiety.

5. Embrace self-compassion

Finally, it’s essential to approach ourselves with compassion and kindness as we navigate the ups and downs of self-care. It’s okay to make mistakes or fall short of our goals – what matters is that we continue to prioritize our own wellbeing and work towards a healthier, more balanced life. Remember to celebrate your progress and show yourself the same kindness and understanding that you would offer to a friend.

 boy working in the night to try learning to focus and take care of himself

It’s also important to remember that self-care is not a one-time fix, but a lifelong journey of self-discovery and growth. It requires us to be gentle with ourselves, to recognize our own limitations and to seek support when we need it.

In the end, I believe that the key to successful self-care lies in finding a balance that works for us individually. By prioritizing our own wellbeing and taking small steps towards healthier habits, we can cultivate a life that is both fulfilling and sustainable.

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